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Tuesday, 18-Apr-2006 07:06 Email | Share | Bookmark
By-laws for in-laws

Mak and Apak in law
I am so frustrated. Nothing I do seems enough or appreciated. I am not expecting gushing words of thanks but a nod or better still a smile would do. When you do not speak you are aloof, when you do speak you are misintepreted. Feelings get hurt and you ended up guilt ridden.Serba tak kena. My patience is tested and I have to bear and grin.

I have always got along famously with my father in law. In fact I think my mother in law was a bit envious of this camaraderie and easy going chatter we share (I'm the only daughter in law). But now that he is gone, there is no person that acts as `go-between'. I need to reach out to her, comfort her and provide the strength in her time of need and sadness.

But if the chasm was there all along, how I can cross over if the bridge is gone?

Most recent comments... (In posting order)
we do the best we can. sometimes a smile is more than enough. we can never control others' thoughts or actions. suffice to simply be your good self w'out any pretentions... Tue 18-Apr-2006 10:42
Posted by:rosemarie rogers
sedih, kita tak 100% perfect, tapi kita buat sebaik mungkin, semoga ALLAH memberi petunjuk, I always support u Fri 5-May-2006 00:48
Posted by:shila shila@frim.gov.my


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